Picking potential suitors is sort of like sorority rush. If you weren’t in a sorority, such as myself and I’d assume a fair number of other FFJDers, let me break it down for you.
That guilt that is coming over you is the meddling ego that recognizes that you really don’t want to cross the line that could cost Prof his job and you your gold stars.
Some people swear by open relationships – it’s less pressure, more relaxed, no commitment. But isn’t that what a relationship is about? Commitment? Isn’t that the point?